Discovering you’re unexpectedly pregnant can stir up fear, confusion, or even panic. Those feelings can grow even stronger if friends insist you should have an abortion, especially when you’re not sure that’s what you want. However, the decision is yours alone.
At Mercy Women’s Center, we provide free and confidential services in a non-judgmental environment so you can explore every option without outside pressure. Schedule an appointment today to find the support and information you need.
Remember: The Choice Is Yours
Friends often speak from their own experiences or worries. They may see abortion as a quick solution to prevent any changes. However, there’s much more to this. You will be the one living with the outcome of this choice, and it’s not always a clear-cut decision.
Take a deep breath and let yourself slow down. Ask yourself:
- What matters most to me in the long term?
- How do I feel about my options, not just today, but imagining life years from now?
Reflecting on these questions is essential because it impacts your future and well-being. Whichever option you choose will become a part of your life story.
Protect Your Space and Set Boundaries
If conversations with friends start to feel one-sided, it’s healthy to set limits. You might say, “I value your concern, but I need time to think.” Taking a step back from group chats or social gatherings can give you the time to process your feelings.
Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out. They protect your well-being and allow you to decide without feeling pressured or judged.
Explore All of Your Options
Finding a private, supportive place to learn the facts can bring clarity. At Mercy Women’s Center, we offer:
- Honest, accurate information on parenting, adoption, and abortion, and a space to ask questions.
- A non-judgmental listening ear
You deserve to understand every option before making a decision that affects your future.
Take the First Step Toward Clarity
You do not have to figure this out alone or rush into a decision because friends are urging you in one direction. Our advocates are ready to listen and walk with you as you consider what’s best for you.
Schedule your free, confidential appointment with Mercy today to talk with an advocate and receive the support you need.
FAQ:
Can anyone legally force me to have an abortion?
No. The decision is entirely yours, regardless of your age or circumstances.
What if I’m afraid of losing friendships if I don’t follow their advice?
Healthy friendships respect your autonomy. Setting boundaries may feel difficult, but true friends will respect your need to make your own choice.
What if I’m not ready to parent?
Mercy Women’s Center can share resources for parenting support and explain how adoption works, including open, semi-open, and closed plans, so that you can explore every possibility.
Mercy Women’s Center does not provide or refer for abortions.